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Wednesday Oct 13, 2021
Wednesday Oct 13, 2021
Trigger Warning (Death, Suffocation, Suitcases, Discarded, etc.) from 54:02 until 56:05. Purge siren will warn you.
In this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Hecklers Handiwork) Lala talks some sexy talk with Lord_Master_Bear.
On this week's episode of The Gotham Press Podcast Greedy tries to help Lord_Master_Bear find a new Fet name (hence the title of today's episode).
Lord_Master_Bear breaks down what it means to be a Leather Man in a Leather Family for the gang.
The gang talks about important aspects of choosing partners within the kink lifestyle and self-sabotaging things to avoid, or at least, acknowledge to yourself.
From general kink to D/s into M/s and beyond!
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Trigger Warning (Death, Suffocation, Suitcases, Discarded, etc.) from 54:02 until 56:05. Purge siren will warn you.
Wednesday Oct 06, 2021
Wednesday Oct 06, 2021
2 Trigger Warnings (Molestation) from 00:44 until 01:32 and from 08:24 until 08:50. Purge siren will sound before each.
On this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala gets to the nitty-gritty with Greedy.
On The Gotham Press Podcast Thief's phone rings after he boasts about having already silenced it before the mic check. This is why that little part is included this week.
We talk about Cassandra Peterson (Mistress of the Dark) who recently came out about her 19-year lesbian relationship.
Greedy lets us know that there is a national blood shortage and is asking for blood rituals. Go donate if you're able to!
Click here to find out your nearest donation centers.
Thief gets educated by Anemic in regards to who Tom of Finland is which brings us around to talking about Fetish Art. What do we define as Fetish Art? Who are some of our favorites? From Traditional such as painting, drawing, zines, to Comics to FetLife creators, music, and beyond.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week: Bastinado, also called falaka or falanga, is the practice of beating or whipping the soles of the feet, usually with a cane or a rod. It originated in the Middle East or in China as a form of corporal punishment.
Bastinado can be intensely painful – the soles of the feet have lots of nerve endings – and dangerous too, as the feet have many tiny bones that can be easily broken if the person wielding the cane isn’t careful. Whipping the feet has deep psychological triggers for many people as well, especially in certain cultures.
Some of the Fet Life photographers mentioned in the podcast:
JustaLibertine from Greece. Thief's favorite photographer on Fet and elsewhere. Amazing use of light and shadow and great artistic eye. Dark surrealism?
Throughmyeye from Germany. Great black and white (majority) rope and suspension photography with a smidge of sadist spin.
Powidok is a Polish photographer with a great eye for subtlety and light.
JohnMilton from Dallas, TX is a great underwater photographer. From his Profile, "Through my formal studies, I have explored thoughts and ideas surrounding the art of letting go. Letting go is a strong corollary to D/s relationships. It is in this realm I love to create."
ReflectiveDesire is a "Seattle-based AMAB GQ top-leaning switch, rubber pervert, photographer, and general weirdo."
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2 Trigger Warnings (Molestation) from 00:44 until 01:32 and from 08:24 until 08:50. Purge siren will sound before each.
Wednesday Sep 22, 2021
Wednesday Sep 22, 2021
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, we discuss some mistakes we made in the last episode or was it the one before that? You'll have to listen to find out!
We added a $10 Patreon level that can get your Fet name and a fantasy read-aloud on the podcast.
Greedy gets a "Get Fucked Karen" hat that you can check out on his TikTok @greedypaul.
Our guest bee_stings Tells us about her new location as well as the erotica she is working on.
Anemic educates Thief about what a Green Book is/was.
We spend a little bit talking about Netflix Documentaries and how engrossing they are. Sorry, not sorry.
Anemic gets us back on track and we talk about Predators in the kink community. What does predatory behavior look like in tops? What about bottoms? Do you feel you were even preyed upon by someone like this? How does one handle a situation where they think they are being preyed upon? What do you do when you see someone else at risk of being preyed upon? How do we as a community address issues with these people? Can second chances be given?
Thief is also a name-dropping mother fucker in this episode, apparently. Ready for Dolphin noises!
Captain makes a surprise appearance!
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week: Macrophilia is a fascination with or a sexual fantasy involving giants, more commonly expressed as giantesses (female giants). It is typically a male fantasy, with the male playing the "smaller" part. The male may be depicted as entering, being dominated by, or being eaten by the larger woman. Others involve partners who naturally have a significant difference in size.
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Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
On this episode of The Gotham Press, Anemic, Greedy, and Thief are joined by the TrashKitten to talk about some things.
What things?
Maybe you should listen to find out... Oh, you wanted to know now? Ok, fine...
We begin by talking about Roles and Honorifics. What we currently identify with and if we feel they are important or not as well as how they have changed over time. We also talk a little about how they can be misunderstood or misconstrued.
Anemic brings up Bootblacking and gives us a little info on them which is great if, like Thief, you really have no idea what bootblacking is past a very basic concept of the idea. Let us know if you would like to dive deeper into this topic.
Don't mind the sidebar we have regarding our pre-adult screen names and email addresses or the fact that Thief is into 8-bit porn.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week: Cuckolding is a fetish or kink in which a person gets turned on by their partner having sex with someone else.
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/cuckolding#how-to-talk-to-your-partner
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Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala asks this fine young Shark Boy fellow a few vanilla questions before Anemic decides to pour some blood in the waters and stir up some drama! She's a bit of a brat in case you didn't know.
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, the bratting continues.
Let's talk about Negotiations!
Lala and Thief negotiate a play scene with some help from Anemic and Shark Boy.
A great resource for education and resources is The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
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Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, Anemic, Greedy, and Thief talk hard about some Kink and Libido Discordance: Sexual desire discrepancy (SDD) was first defined by Zilbergeld and Ellison to describe when two partners in an intimate relationship desire different levels or a different frequency of sexual activity.
But first, The movie Thief quotes is Kuffs, not Pump Up The Volume, and not Heathers. It was Christian Slater though.
We welcome our surprise (to him) guest Giagantor and carry on with the shenanigans.
We throw out some ideas on how to handle when a relationship or dynamic ends.
We also rant about OnlyFans and the bullshit they pulled then reversed course on.
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Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land, Greedy and Thief get asked sexual questions about Lala.
On this completely winging-it episode of the Gotham Press Podcast with no quest and missing a host we discuss bears and camping, a little homophobia, and face slapping a Utility Lala.
Thief and Greedy watched The Suicide Squad.
Lala learns a new term, that isn't Brocolautus.
Lala is into a gooder grade of chain and explains why. Greedy educates us on how to lube a chain and insert it into the vagina.
Lala tells us all about the Fog Suckers of Morro Bay, we blame Captain for everything, Lala calls Thief a bad name, and then we crash our own podcast.
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Wednesday Aug 18, 2021
Wednesday Aug 18, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (minus the Lala) AnemicPrincess gets sexy with _trashkitten.
On this potentially award-winning episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, we interrogate _trashkitten and eventually open up about how we each got involved in the local Kink community, why we did so, as well as what the community means to each of us. Greedy mentions a little writing Thief posted on Fet which can be found Here or Here if you don't have a Fet account.
We then read some comments from you, our dear listeners.
Greedy comes up with a genius idea for a new TV show.
Anemic tells us all about her kinky lifestyles of the rich and famous as she spends a weekend pegging a famous YouTuber (no, we're not gonna tell you who they are).
Our Kink of the Week: Podophilia, is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is the most common form of sexual fetishism for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts. For a foot fetishist, points of attraction may include the shape and size of feet and toes (e.g. long toes, short toes, painted toenails, short or long toenail beds, high arches, soles, etc.), jewelry (e.g. toe rings, anklets, etc.), treatments (such as massaging, washing partner's feet or painting partner's toenails), state of dress (barefoot, flip flops, ballet flats, sandals, high heels, hosiery, socked feet, etc.), foot odor or sensory interaction (e.g., rubbing the foot, tickling, smelling, kissing, biting, licking, sucking toes, rubbing genitals on foot, etc.) Foot fetishism may be caused by the feet and the genitals occupying adjacent areas of the somatosensory cortex, possibly entailing some neural crosstalk between the two Neuroscientist V. S. Ramachandran proposed that an accidental link between these regions could explain the prevalence of foot fetishism.
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Wednesday Aug 11, 2021
Wednesday Aug 11, 2021
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast Extreme (with more spice) Greedy and Captain talk with missleopard and Reverend_Pickle and also welcome to the podcast a Licensed Clinical Social Worker named Christine to answer some questions and help the hosts in their search to find some much-needed talk therapy.
Captain awkwardly leads the conversation into talking about the Chucky TV series from the Child's Play movie verse and the new trailer.
The gang dives into talking about the upcoming What if? animated series from Marvel while Greedy shows everyone a picture and Leopard sidetracks the convo into Loki love.
Captain watched Black Widow and tells us his opinions and voices his disappointment with the lack of nerdiness on the podcast lately.
Christine answers some questions about telehealth and therapy from the hosts as well as the kink community.
If you need help or would like to begin the journey to a better tomorrow, you can find Christine here:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/christine-paulsen-lcsw-bakersfield-ca/876729
Captain reads a book called Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide To Mental Manipulation For BDSM And Sadomasochism by Sir Ezra Algos.
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Wednesday Aug 04, 2021
Wednesday Aug 04, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala interrogates Vinci_
and redroseraven
But first! Lala opens her mystery gift from JW Paddles and we find out who won the free paddle!
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, we dive deep into a letter we got from a fan seeking advice with a tricky situation about a supervisor, an ex, a domme picture, and a workplace experience that is all over the place.
Raven agrees to be stripped naked first while Vinci waits in the wings as we find out all the little and pet spaces they harbor within.
Check out Vinci's Instagram Zephyr_stryx for all the neat leather things.
Vinci got cupped at DAM Camp and survived the drive up but didn't get stung by a jellyfish in the mountains.
Raven tells us what it means for them to be a Pleasure Dom.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week: Hybristophilia: arousal by the knowledge that one’s partner has committed a heinous act or crime. This can include cheating, lying, robbery, or murder. This is sometimes known as Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome after the American bank-robbing and murdering duo. One partner is turned on by the other’s bad deeds. Some people find themselves attracted to criminals who are in prison.
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Wednesday Jul 28, 2021
Wednesday Jul 28, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (brought to you by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala has some questions for Sirs_Blue
On The Gotham Press Podcast this week we talk about cleaning our sex toys and some of the ways in which we do so.
On the Gotham Press Discord, there is a giveaway going on from JW Paddles where they are going to give away a paddle to the person who guesses Lala's gift correctly before she opens it on the next episode.
We also talk about switching while in a Dynamic: How does one manage their top and bottom headspaces while around both their top and bottom partners? How can this be incorporated into play/group scenes? How do you stay in the right headspace around the right partner? What factors have to be met to get you in that top or bottom headspace?
Our Kink/Fetish of the week: Hypnotism: in an erotic situation, hypnosis could be a form of consensual nonconsent.
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Wednesday Jul 21, 2021
Wednesday Jul 21, 2021
In this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala backs us into some anal issues with Steel Brat Pacis and AnemicPrincess.
On the Gotham Press Podcast, we introduce our newest host to the podcast and welcome Steel Brat Pacis back as a quest to talk about The two giveaways he and Anemic are going to offer to the listeners for their Little/Pet Class.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week: Gags: a form of mouth bondage and medical play.
Gags come in many forms, but ball gags are the most common. They may also take the form of bit, cleave, pacifier, penis, or spider gag, among others. Mouth gags aren’t usually dangerous, but they can be uncomfortable. Make sure to fit the gag properly to your (or your partner’s) mouth.
Types of Gags: Cloth or silk gags, ball gags in different sizes, metal gags (including Jennings Hinge and Ratchet), spider/ring gags (which have the O opening), Molt gags which are based on a forceps like design that has rubber-coated ends, Canine/Vet Gags, Insertable gags, inflatable gags, and bits.
Dental retractors pull back the skin and don't have anything to do with the teeth.
Claw Hook Mouth Spreader.
Caution: Be wary and knowledgeable of the muscle and skeletal structure of the jaw.
Start with 4-7 minute scenes and progress as able to the desired time.
Be careful of gag reflexes.
Grunts, bells, flashing drop safeties, etc. can be used in the place of safety words if hands are bound.
Some useful videos to watch that are in no way associated with us:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAhtLoyoGWk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16bk_-tBvFw
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Wednesday Jul 14, 2021
Wednesday Jul 14, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala talks sex with LeIncredibleNoms.
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, we are in shambles! Complete and utter shambles. So far off the rails, there are no longer any tracks anywhere to be found. Who are we? Who are you? No one knows but let's talk about anal!
Lala calls Noms, "a good boy" one time and he's never the same for the rest of the night.
Greedy needs your help listeners. He needs a name for his Studio Stuffie. Also, Lala rips his heart out in this episode as well, so send condolences in the form of Patreon subscriptions.
LeIncredibleNoms tells us about his personal experience with transitioning his marriage from open to polyamorous.
Thief asks the gang for some help with a friend's problem of wanting to find subspace but always ending up as the top.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week is a Two for One special as we discuss Face fucking and facesitting. Face fucking: an extreme form of blowjob where a man roughly fucks a partner’s mouth. This kink isn’t inherently dangerous, but it can be uncomfortable and lead to tears, gagging, and even vomiting.
Facesitting: the act of a woman sitting on a man’s face while he performs oral. Facesitting can include mild suffocation but doesn’t have to. It’s incredibly dominant.
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Wednesday Jul 07, 2021
Wednesday Jul 07, 2021
In this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala corrects some mistakes we made regarding pride flags.
In this week's Gotham Press Podcast Lala and Thief are joined by Gigantor41 (a.k.a. Shark Boy) and AnemicPrincess.
Anemic shares her sports ball Twitter escapade and all the dirty details.
Lala destroys Thief's dreams of ever going to The Magic Castle in Los Angeles.
Thief announces a very limited discount code for 20% at Thief's Touch. The code is "OurLilSecret".
The gang checks out Thief's new Paci from Steel Brat Pacis.
Anemic tells us about a Pride Party and Drag Show they went to and it sounds amazing!
We talk about Uber Eats reversing their policy requiring trans drivers to out themselves to customers.
We try to discuss Karine Jean-Pierre being the first LGBTQ+ person to lead a White House Briefing but get a little sidetracked.
Anemic tells us about the DAM Ranch Camp.
We talk about what the lack of virtual events means for everyone at home as things start to open back up.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week is Urolagnia (also urophilia, golden shower, and watersports) is a paraphilia in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination.
Spoiler Alert for episode 3 of Marvel's Loki at 1 hour 16 minutes of the episode that lasts for one minute before we spin off into the different mythology of Loki and other things Norse.
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Wednesday Jun 30, 2021
Wednesday Jun 30, 2021
In this episode of Lala's Land, Lala brings us Fun with Flags Part 2, and Greedy is outed as 007.
On this full table episode of The Gotham Podcast Lala tells us about her awesome experience at Oleander Pride and reminds us to always get consent for hugs as the world opens back up.
We discuss the new board game Kinkopoly.
The gang tackles some more listener feedback comments, questions, and topic suggestions.
Kink/Fetish of the Week: Exhibitionism: a common fetish for being naked and performing sexually in front of a person or persons. Masturbating for your partner is a mild form of this kink, but performing in sex windows or at BDSM shows and parties is a safe way to explore this fetish. Sex in public is partly exhibitionism.
Related to agrexophilia, which is arousal when other people know about your sexual activities, and autagonistophilia, exposing oneself while on stage and being photographed. The counterpart of voyeurism.
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Wednesday Jun 23, 2021
Wednesday Jun 23, 2021
In this episode of Lala's Land (Sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork), Thief and Lala talk about the redesign of the LGBTQ+ Flag, and Lala even asked around to get their feedback as well. Thief strangely clears his throat a lot as well which is bugging him as he edits this episode, but not as much as wanting to scream at him, "You don't have to have an opinion about every single person's opinion. Shut up, Thief!" Just saying.
In this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, we start the show off by talking about masturbation before we slide into penis piercings.
Welcome back to Pride!
We revisit a listener's opinion on the Polyam lifestyle being under the LGBTQ+ banner. We should also mention that Captain listened to the podcast last week and came home foaming at the mouth about how many times we mangled Polyam lifestyles in the podcast. So head over to the Discord to read up about it.
We also talk about the BDSM app KinkD and how they launched an AI to remove nude photos in chats.
Lala launches a surprise on us and announces Thief's budding photography business and lets listeners know that if they want to update their profile photos or just want some photography done to contact Thief.
The Kink/Fetish of the Week: Wet and messy fetish (WAM), also known as sploshing, is a form of sexual fetishism whereby a person becomes aroused when copious amounts of a substance are applied to the naked skin, face, or clothing. Greedy and Thief discuss it as Lala runs away.
Captain Awesome jumps in to say hello and to close out the show as well.
If you would like to be a guest on the Gotham Press Podcast, hit up Micro-Manager Lala.
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Tuesday Jun 15, 2021
Tuesday Jun 15, 2021
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, Lala, Greedy, and Thief dive into Pride!
Lego unveils its first LGBTQ set and we want them!
We talk about some lesser-known facts about the Stonewall Riots.
We talk about Oleander Pride and some other things taking place locally (Bakersfield, CA).
We dabble in the debate between who belongs at a Pride event.
We also try to answer the question, "Is Poly under the LGBTQ+ umbrella?"
We makeup 13 "Condom Myths" on the spot and then talk about 13 Common Myths about BDSM.
We discuss coming to Vanilla events wearing more than vanilla attire.
Heckler's Handiwork is having a sale!
Also, we are apparently all open to being bribed, so do your worst!
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Wednesday May 19, 2021
Wednesday May 19, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala learns about Zeolist's Fuckening and more.
On this episode of The Gotham Press Podcast, we skip some geek to dive right into the deep end of the tentacle kink pool. Don't worry though kids, we circle back around to it later on.
After about 45 minutes of tentacle excitement we move on to talking about the new Venom: Let There Be Carnage trailer. But then we also realize that tentacles are represented in the Venom universe as well.
Lala thinks Tom Hardy is a football player and breaks Thief's heart a little.
Yasuke, the Legendary Black Samurai Behind Netflix’s New Anime Series
Yasuke was a real-life Black samurai who served under Oda Nobunaga, one of the most important feudal lords in Japanese history and a unifier of the country. He is also the inspiration for Netflix’s new anime series Yasuke—a project from creator and director LeSean Thomas and the Japanese animation studio MAPPA, executive produced by LaKeith Stanfield, who voices Yasuke, and Flying Lotus, who produced the soundtrack.
We saved this specifically for Zeolist but we talk about the League of Legend’s first animated series coming to Netflix. League of Legends: Arcane will hit the streaming service sometime later this fall.
There is a trigger warning (suicide) coming up which I will warn you about while listening. The warning lasts from 1:04:31 until 1:06:27.
We talk about the new red band trailer for Love Death + Robots that dropped online.
We then talk about the Wednesday Meetup that took place and the enjoyment everyone seemed to have gotten from it. Don't forget, if you are local to the Bakersfield, California area, there will be a weekly in-person meet-up happening every Wednesday (for now). Find more info on FetLife if you are part of the local community or curious about joining.
We then do a deep dive into CNC (Consensual Non Consent) and talk about our opinions and expectations as well as experiences.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week is Doraphilia: playing with skin, leather, or fur. Hyphephilia is a similar fetish for touching hair, fur, skin, and certain fabrics.
Last but not least, "Hello Chunkster!"
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Wednesday May 12, 2021
Wednesday May 12, 2021
On this episode of Lala's Land (sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala asks the guys some sex questions.
On the Gotham Press Podcast Lala watched Your Highness on Netflix.
Marvel releases a sizzle reel and updates the release dates for MCU content from now until 2023.
Thief keeps making the mistake of thinking the Eternals are the Inhumans. There was an Inhuman in Daredevil, right?! Someone? Anyone?
Sweet Tooth coming to Netflix on June 4, 2021.
Loki is coming earlier than originally announced. Disney has moved up the release date by two days. Instead of new episodes coming out on Fridays like WV and FatWS, Loki will have new episodes every Wednesday starting on June 9th.
UK Sex Toy Company Lovehoney Receives Award From Queen For ‘Outstanding Continuous Growth’, again!
We have a listener question! Woohoo! They say, "I have a new partner who has had really bad experiences with previous subs. It’s made him very skittish when it comes to any type of dynamic.
He knows how to physically be a Dom (hit safely, mechanics of choking, etc.) but I think he’s having trouble reconciling with having that in a relationship that means more than sex. So he’s wanting to read something with more of a philosophical or emotional connection, less on how to hit without damaging your sub." We all argue about what the question means and try our best to give some advice.
Kink/Fetish of the week: Elastophilia: a fetish for stretchy materials including spandex, latex, silicone, etc. Elastophiles often enjoy bouncing on these materials or sinking deep down into something stretchy.
Lala and Greedy finger each other.
And last but not least, we need help naming the new in-person Wednesday Meet-up. Let us know in the comments, by email, on Discord, Fet, etc. Links below.
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Wednesday May 05, 2021
Wednesday May 05, 2021
This week on Lala's Land (Sponsored by Heckler's Handiwork) Lala interviews a newish member of the community, mia4hotti.
On this week's episode of The Gotham Press Podcast Mia gets picked up by Lala and meets Captain Awesome.
Lala is both excited and also sad after binge-watching Shadow and Bone and being left with no more episodes to explore for now. She also watched "Captain America and the bird dude" and we have some spoilers from minute 0:31:00 through 0:32:33. Really though, it isn't much of a spoiler if any at all but enjoy the sound effects.
The gang discusses the landmark ruling that took place in Japan that stated it was 'unconstitutional' to bar same-sex marriage. While a new law will be needed before same-sex marriages can actually take place, it is a step in the right direction for a very socially conservative nation.
The gang and guest discuss our first forays into the world of kink and the experiences that accompanied them as well as our introduction to the world as a whole.
Awesome gets the hiccups.
Our Kink/Fetish of the Week is Anasteemaphilia: a fetish for people of extreme sizes, ie a giant or a dwarf. It can be used to refer to attraction to partners of differing heights even if those people aren’t especially gigantic or tiny.
Lala came out to her children about her lifestyle and lets us all in on how it went down and Awesome drops the news that he's gonna start posting snippets of the show on TikTok before they are released. Come get your teases, listeners!
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